* Be sure to consult but make your own decisions

 

 * Be sure to consult but make your own decisions

  Selection from * Dr Muhammad Azam Raza Tabassum * 's book * Secrets of Successful Life *: * Farheen Naz * Global Hands Pakistan

  * The fox standing on the bank of the canal wanted to go to the other side. He saw a camel and a fox coming towards the water of the canal. * The fox said running loudly.

 Hey brother i have to go to the other side  Just tell me

 Where does the canal water reach?

  * The camel replied *: up to the knee.

 As soon as the fox jumped into the water, the divers began to eat.  Death was clearly visible. Hands and feet were beaten. While diving, a big stone lying on the bank of the canal was touched.  He took courage and held the stone firmly, took his mouth out of the water and breathed his last and saved his life.

  * Come out and shout angrily at the camel *: Why did you say that the water comes to the knees?

  The camel replied: Yes, the water comes to my knees.

 The camel was in its place and the fox's question was in its place.  In fact, it is a story that reflects a particular aspect of our lives.  * When we consult with someone, the counselor usually responds to us in the light of his or her own experiences. Things that may be beneficial to him or her may be harmful to you.  Now when you follow these advices and take the loss instead of the gain *, you become disgusted with your benefactor.  In fact, there are a few things you need to learn.

  * No. 1. * Don't ask incomplete questions when seeking advice.

  * No. 2 *.  Don't give incomplete answers when giving advice.

  * No. 3. * Advice is Sunnah practice

  * No. 4. * Advice should be given in the light of circumstances and events and if the matter is not understood and the mind does not reach a conclusion, it is a good practice to apologize for giving wrong advice.

  * No. 5. * The more sincere you are in giving advice, the more beneficial the advice will be

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  * No. 6. * The person being consulted must also have expertise or at least experience in this regard.  It is better to seek medical advice from a doctor. The intellect does not allow an engineer to prescribe medicine for a disease.

  * No. 7. * Always seek advice from a person who keeps secrets.  Make it a point to give advice to yourself because the person taking the advice is trusting you and the biggest disadvantage of breaking trust is that you will not be able to trust again.

  * No. 8. * One last and necessary thing to do is to follow the advice by looking at your circumstances and events. Do not become poor by the line.

 Now remember that advice is the opposite.  * In counseling, the counselor gives advice by thinking according to the situation of the person in front of him and not himself.  Following the advice will lead you to success. * Never think of yourself as perfect.  Listen to the whole thing.  Incomplete talk, whether advice or advice, is enough to drown.  Advice makes life easier and clears the way.  * As much as those who consider themselves to be intellects are arrogant, they also suffer great losses. * There are also problems in the society of which man is a part.  One brain is one, but one is eleven.  * Take advice from a wise man and a wise man will never give advice without thinking and thinking. A fool will talk emotionally and if you come to his words and make a hasty decision, the only difference will be that you  Foolishness is won by it. * There are two sides to everything, positive and negative. Lean towards the positive side and the good side. It is both beneficial and worthy of the believer.  * The advice in the conduct is called a trust and the trust is good only to the trustworthy *.  Be honest, don't tarnish your character with lies and hypocrisy.  However, * an issue that if someone is angry with the right advice and you know that you are guiding him correctly, then do not worry and stick to your position, God willing, time will prove your sincerity * but someone  Do not deviate from the right path for